Empathy

Using Empathy Is A Choice

“A prerequisite to empathy is simply paying attention to the person in pain.” – Daniel Goleman One of the many leadership traits that executives should practice is empathy. According to Ryan Makris in his article in Business First Magazine, “A leader must genuinely want to make a difference and develop staff to grow, yet many leaders are purely in the …

public speaking mistakes

10 Common Mistakes People Make When They Try To Do Public Speaking

I like to think of mistakes as lessons and opportunities to learn. In my many years as a public speaking trainer, coach and observer of public speaking, the following mistakes are the ones I see the most and the ones that can be easily corrected. Not being fully prepared – Notes out of order, PowerPoint not working properly, rushing on …

positive mindset

6 Tips To Help You To Achieve a Winning Mind Set

One of the keys to successful public speaking and overcoming fear is to have a positive mindset. An attitude of being ready and prepared and that you are going to succeed. I enclose 6 of my favourite strategies to help you achieve a positive mindset so you can take on daunting and scary speaking assignments. TIP #1: Ready Fire Aim …

Silence

Silence is Golden – The Power Of Silence

I often talk about the value and the power of being silent when speaking. Silence, or the pause, or whatever you wish to call it is one of the most valuable tools that we can have when public speaking or presenting. It is multi-faceted, intelligent and is also a great recovery tool.  Let me share with you some of the …

Dealing with Criticism

How To Deal With Criticism Effectively – Do Women Need to Become Thick Skinned

Research shows that women are more sensitive to criticism than men. The reason for this is probably because women are more capable of reading others’ emotions and can sense even the subtlest criticism. Now, this is not a bad thing, especially if you can use that criticism to improve and grow yourself. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Our …

Struggle Share Your Struggles As Well As Your Wins

Share Your Struggles As Well As Your Wins – If You Wish To Be Truly Persuasive

Should you share your struggles, your weaknesses your mistakes? I was doing an online leadership course and one of the questions asked, was “should leaders reveal their weaknesses”? The majority of responses stated that good leaders must appear strong, knowledgeable, experienced and they must not show or reveal any weakness. Of course I disagreed and argued that weakness, or struggle …